The Pivotal Network Newsletter

 

 

Instructions on how to subscribe to, or unsubscribe from, the Pivotal Network Newsletter are at the bottom of the ezine.

 

 

Issue Number 60

 

 

Greetings!

This is one of the email packages from the Pivotal Network

Resources for the times when you pivot – change direction – towards your personal best …

http://www.consultpivotal.com

--- be inspired --- be informed --- be entertained

 

 

 

From Pivotal Inspiration, the thought for today

 

“We're so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget that the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it's all about.”

 

-- Joseph Campbell

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

This week’s resource …

 

How would YOU like a RISK-FREE LIFE MAKEOVER?

Let's be honest....

We all have things in our lives that we want to change. Our relationships. Our finances. Our energy levels. Our stress. Our weight. Our self-esteem. Our fears.

But when did you last give yourself a REAL LIFE MAKEOVER?

Start now, start here …

 

 

 

From Pivotal Public Speaking  Quick Tip:   Step out of the frame

 

When we speak, we are so much more than a picture in a frame.  We are so much more than a movie on a screen.  Those are creations that are designed and constrained to become the perfect piece - on show.  You are that, certainly.  You will put all the time and effort and knowledge and experience that it takes to become a piece that can be shown and that can achieve its outcomes.  But the good news is that there is so much more to presenting and speaking than presenting your best self and your best speech.  There is so much more that you can use to achieve those outcomes.  You can use your authentic self, with all its flaws and humanity.  That is the self your audience will relate to.  That is the self your audience will trust.  And that is the self that will communicate one on one with each audience member as you speak.  And that communicative link will be far more powerful and real than any performance designed just for show. 

 

 

Featured Media   How to make eye contact

 

There are several useful reminders here, and quite a performance!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

From Pivotal Books and Reading: 

 

 

Books

 

 This week we looked at:

 

 

Coming soon Biography Archived   Fiction activities Just released
Inferno

Dan Brown

Anyone who had a heart

Burt Bacharach

Live Wire

by Harlan Coben

The Help

by Kathryn Stockett

Because of Winn-Dixie

Kate Di Camillo

That is not a good idea

Mo Willems

 

From Pivotal Business 

 

Featured article:  Meditation in Business

 

The CEO strode into the executive suite, asked his secretary to hold his calls and closed his office door behind him. Preparing for a major meeting? Working on strategy? Fuming over staff issues?

No.

Inside his office he placed a cushion on the floor, sat down, crossed his legs, closed his eyes - and remained there for 20 minutes.

Meditation has gone mainstream. It has shifted from the ashram to the boardroom, from the guru to the General Manager.

But why this interest in meditation in the hard-nosed world of business?

According to the Meditation Foundation, an organisation offering evidence-based, non-religious meditation and mindfulness courses, there are specific benefits for businesses including reduced staff absenteeism, improved concentration, memory, learning ability and creativity, increased productivity, better relationships and reduced staff turnover.

Writing for the Harvard Business Review, author and business strategist, Peter Bregman, claims that meditation makes you more productive by increasing your capacity to resist distracting urges.

"Research shows that an ability to resist urges will improve your relationships, increase your dependability, and raise your performance," he says. "If you can resist your urges, you can make better, more thoughtful decisions. You can be more intentional about what you say and how you say it. You can think about the outcome of your actions before following through on them".

Although used by religions, meditation is not necessarily a religious process. It is a refreshing mind exercise which helps you focus on what is happening now. It is an excellent stress reducer and helps you cope with the information and communication overload we constantly live with. It is not as much about communing with the gods as about communing with yourself to understand where your thoughts are taking you.

Meditation is an awareness raising exercise. Through spending time in quietness we become aware of the thoughts that cross our minds, and the thoughts our minds so easily follow down the rabbit hole. We become aware of the effects of our thoughts on our actions and emotions, and we learn to select which thoughts to stay with and work with and which thoughts to ignore.

In meditation we discover that we are not our thoughts. Thoughts are a product of who we are, but we are not them and we can choose to identify with them or not.

So in the silence of meditation I find I am thinking about the fact that I was overlooked for promotion. I allow that thought to linger. Fairly soon I begin to feel the emotions attached to that thought - anger, fear, rejection. And in no time my mind is off down the rabbit hole and following that thought to its illogical and not so helpful conclusion - I feel upset, distracted and unmotivated and I am sure I am useless, incompetent and about to be fired.

However, experience in meditation allows me to stand back from the thought and observe without identifying with it. As soon as I become aware that I am thinking, I can choose not to think, not to follow the thought. I may recognise that I would feel angry and rejected. But I will also recognise that this train of thought will have no benefit for me. So I choose not to follow it.

That is the benefit of meditation - the ability to become aware of our thinking and take control of it. We know how easy it is to be off and away on a thought before we are even aware that we are doing it. And we are aware of how distracting and unhelpful some of those thoughts can be. They are unhelpful either because they raise negative emotions about issues that cannot be resolved, or they are useful thoughts occurring at the wrong time.

Through meditation we develop the "mind muscle" that puts us back in control of our thoughts, choosing which thoughts to follow and when to follow them. It helps us cut through the morass of distractions which we encounter all the time, and remain focussed on what needs to be dealt with in the present moment

The irony is that to produce more, you need to spend some time doing nothing.

Jonathan Payne is the owner of Powermind Plus, an entrepreneur support system, based in Durban, South Africa. He coaches, facilitates group action learning sessions, conducts seminars, presents motivational talks, writes articles and generally helps small business owners and entrepreneurs stay on top of their game. Find out more about his work at http://www.powermindplus.biz

 

 

Featured Media
LinkedIn Influencers Share Best Career Mistakes

My best career mistake
http://www.consultpivotal.com/e_linkedinmistakes.htm

Member exclusive access: 

 

Youngsters can develop the mature attention spans they need for effective thinking and problem-solving in today's screen-machine world, given the time and space to do so.

Appetite Bootcamp will help you control the cravings and join the long-term path to healthy eating.

I view life as a way of travelling on a mysterious, ever-challenging safari, where the trail is blazed by our daily choices, actions and responses.

 

Free eBook

 

This non-fiction book will show you how to tap into your subconscious mind, to improve your life. 

This eBook is one of the fr.eebies available this month to the members of the Pivotal Gold Rewards Club.  If you would like to read this book and take up the other offers of things fr.ee and discounted, you can join for fr.ee.  Just sign up here => 

 http://www.pivotalbookclub.com/membership_books.htm

 

 

 

From Pivotal Fun

This week's Friday fortnightly fun theme was theft and thieves.  Here are some of the quotes and jokes.

 

A kleptomaniac is a person who helps himself because he can't help himself.

Henry Morgan 

 

“It is not the thief who is hanged, but one who was caught stealing”

Czech Proverb

 

I never wanted to believe that my Dad was stealing from his job as a road worker. But when I got home, all the signs were there.

………………………………………………………….

 

A burglar has just made it into the house he's intending ransacking, and he's looking around for stuff to steal. All of a sudden, a little voice pipes up, "I can see you, and so can Jesus!"

Startled, the burglar looks around the room. No one there at all, so he goes back to his business.

"I can see you, and so can Jesus!"

The burglar jumps again, and takes a longer look around the room. Over in the corner by the window, almost obscured by curtains, is a cage in which sits a parrot, who pipes up again, "I can see you, and so can Jesus!"

"So what," says the burglar, "you're only a parrot!"

To which the parrot replies, "Maybe, but Jesus is a rottweiler!"

 

 

How would YOU like a RISK-FREE LIFE MAKEOVER?

Let's be honest....

We all have things in our lives that we want to change. Our relationships. Our finances. Our energy levels. Our stress. Our weight. Our self-esteem. Our fears.

But when did you last give yourself a REAL LIFE MAKEOVER?

Start now, start here …

 

Closing thought from Pivotal Inspiration

 

“Spend 80 percent of your time focusing on the opportunities of tomorrow rather than the problems of yesterday.” 

—Brian Tracy

 

 


 

My best wishes,

 

 

 

Bronwyn

 

 

 

 


For more tips, articles and courses to improve your Personal Best visit The Pivotal Network

 

Subscriptions:

To subscribe to the Pivotal Network ezine, send a blank email by clicking here => subscribe@consultpivotal.com 

I will not give or sell your email address to anyone for any reason.

To unsubscribe, send a blank email by clicking here => subscribe@consultpivotal.com