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Nor should you take it for granted. Your voice can have a
profound impact on how successfully you influence and persuade
others. Your voice effects how seriously you are taken... how
respected you are... the results you get with clients,
co-workers or vendors in business, with lovers or spouse and
children in your personal life.
Your voice can be a powerful secret advantage you very
deliberately use for influence and persuasion (just as actors
and people paid thousands of dollars per minute to record
commercials do)—or it can be a handicap (like it was for Markus
on The Apprentice), undermining the impact of everything you
say.
Here’s why.
Voice works on a subconscious level even more than on a
conscious level. There is ‘voice detection technology’ used by
law enforcement agencies and in corporate espionage. It works
much like a lie detector—but without the person being judged
knowing that it’s happening.
However, every individual has similar “technology” installed in
their own subconscious. It judges truth, veracity, substance,
gravitas and authenticity constantly in all the voices that try
to influence you. This goes on all the time and is one of the
five “feeds” from the subconscious to the conscious that
directly determines whether you are accepted, believed and paid
attention to.
For example, does your voice quiver when you quote your price or
fee? It might not seem that people notice, but they do.
In fact, in a study done at UCLA, Dr. Albert Mehrabian found
that up to 84% of your success depends on your ability to
skillfully ‘play” your speaking voice.
© Copyright 2005 Susan Berkley. May not be reprinted without
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