Not All Distractions Are Bad
Though we often think of distractions as inherently bad, that's not always the case. There are some instances where a distraction can be helpful or even healthy. Unfortunately, we all know that there are plenty of distractions out there that can lead us astray.
But what about those times when a distraction can be a good thing? Here are a few examples:
Taking a Break
If you notice that you are experiencing additional stress or feelings of anxiety, a mild but healthy distraction will relieve your mind and offer some relief. Examples of good distractions, in this case, include reading a book, listening to music, or going for a walk.
Refocusing Yourself
Sometimes, if you can't focus on a task, taking a brief break might help you get back to work. This is usually the case when the task is quite difficult or boring.
Eating, Drinking, and Nourishing Yourself
Sometimes, a healthy distraction can help us avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms like overeating or drinking. If you feel tempted to engage in one of these behaviors, try to find a positive distraction to focus on instead.
Other Self-Care Actions
Anytime you notice that even with your normal interventions, you can’t seem to get your focus together, it may be time to take some time out for more self-care. It may simply mean working on sleeping better at night so you’re at your best each day, but it will take self-reflection and honesty to ensure you find the right issues. It’s not wrong to take care of your needs before anyone else gets their wants seen to.
Helping Your Child Refocus
Helping your child switch from a frustrating task to a more enjoyable activity can be an excellent way to reduce their stress levels and prevent them from becoming overwhelmed. While this may seem like a distraction as it happens, taking you from your task and helping them will teach them to soothe themselves better, and over time interruptions will slow down as they learn what to do by your example.
As you can see, there are actually quite a few instances where a diversion can be helpful – when you're feeling stressed or anxious, your child is having a tough time with a task or situation, or you need more healthy self-care. Sometimes shifting attention to something helps everyone.
Of course, it's essential not to let distractions get out of hand. However, if you constantly get sidetracked and not getting anything done, it's time to reassess your priorities and find a better way to focus. For example, maybe you need to work more on the setup before starting a new task.
Perhaps being more mindful about your current feelings, your child’s issues, and so forth will help you avoid problems. But in moderation, distractions can be helpful. In addition, you may build stronger relationships with yourself and your loved ones if you handle them well. So next time you're feeling stressed or struggling to focus, don't be afraid to give yourself a break and find a healthy distraction.
