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12 Acts of Courage to change meetings for good

Research shows that a great percentage of meetings are run poorly, resulting in huge losses of time and productivity. I believe that there are three main reasons that meetings continue to leave us wanting:

1) We underestimate the complexity of group thought.

2) Few of us are trained in meeting facilitation skills.

3) Boggled by group complexity and lacking requisite skills, we fall into dysfunctional patterns, failing to do anything to change meeting dynamics.

Given that there are eight times more participants than there are meeting leaders in your average group, targeting meeting leaders alone to improve meetings may be missing the mark. What if we were to arm meeting participants with the basic knowledge, skills, and attitudes they could use to keep their groups on track and moving forward? The 12 Acts below were written to do just that, and to frame leadership as a quality anyone can exercise, no matter what their official position.

The New Face of Business Meetings

Meetings used to be a way of discussing important issues. Meetings took place in our personal lives, as well as during our day of work. Seminars, conventions, conferences, or simply, gatherings and discussions -- various kinds of meetings offered people a chance to have their say. In the days gone past, people would necessarily have to assemble at a specified place. But then, that was back in the days when people with similar needs and topics of discussion lived in close proximity to each other. Those who lived far away would most likely have different attitudes and varying needs to take care of.

Now, jet across to the present day. Times sure have changed. We are constantly in touch with people who live not just in different towns and cities but in different time zones, and on different continents. We can no longer claim that people who live miles apart have nothing in common. The various social networking websites that dominate our lives suggest the contrary. We share many interests with people of varied backgrounds who live across the oceans.

Going to a Boring Meeting? Take This Column

by Tom Terez

I had big plans for this column. I was going to write about an exciting, engaging, energizing, enlightening, adjective-filled topic. But something happened to change all that -- something that had all the pleasantness of major abdominal surgery.

I attended a meeting.

More accurately: I was imprisoned in a meeting. It lasted two painful hours, during which I became convinced that the laws of physics had somehow broken down and caused an actual stopping of time. It was that bad.

Millions of people are similarly locked down in time-wasting get-togethers each and every working day. According to a recent survey conducted by BetterWorkplaceNow.com, people spend an average of nine hours each week in meetings. That's nearly 500 hours a year -- and who knows how many aspirins.

So while meetings aren't the most exciting topic, they're important because they fill up so much of our time. Even a few improvements here or there can translate into sessions that get more done more quickly and cause fewer headaches for everyone.

 

 

Don't allow phones in a meeting room

From the Desk of Time & Productivity Specialist Robyn Pearce

A very large international IT company asked for a course on 'How to run effective meetings'. It was the weirdest session I've ever run; a brilliant example of how not to run meetings. The trouble was, the CEO had a different work ethic to the rest of the company. She'd been sent to Australia from the States to do the job, and had no family in the country. Her work was her life and she expected her managers to behave in the same way.

The session was a bun fight! People came and went like yoyos, phones rang constantly, and although everyone had chosen to come, the activities of a number of the group were so (unintentionally) disruptive that it minimised the learning of the rest.

Article continues


MEETING SUCCESS TIP - Why use an agenda?

Prepare a written agenda for your meeting.  Make sure that everyone at the meeting is aware of it, and if necessary, have the meeting agree to it.  Then you can refer to the agenda to keep discussion focused. 


International meetings made easier

Emailing members of your organisation in other parts of the world has become second nature these days, but it is not so easy to set up a meeting when they are all in different time zones.

Here is a device that makes it easier.

Go to www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/meeting.html and enter the various cities. The website will then produce a table that shows you the local time in each city. Each cell in the table is color-coded as follows:
· RED represents nighttime or normal sleeping hours.
· YELLOW represents the second half of the day, when people are awake but not necessarily at work.
· GREEN represents the first half of the day, when most people are at work.
Search the table for the rows where most or all of the colors are green. You'll then know the best time to schedule your call.


 

Sit where you can be seen.  Place yourself with the most powerful people, so you get the halo effect. If you are presenting, face them.  Sit in the middle of the row, not the end, to maximise your contact with the other people at the meeting.  At a table, sit the head of the table.  These are external symbols of validation. 


Meetings 101

If you want to have more effective meetings, first you have to learn the basics. Here are some simple, easy-to-follow and proven guidelines that should be followed each and every time your group meets.

Print this page. Hang it on your meeting room wall. Write the guidelines on a poster. Memorize them by heart. Do whatever it's going to take to improve your meetings!

Guidelines you and your group can follow before, during and after your meeting


  If you want everyone's opinion, take note of those who have said nothing.  When everyone is quiet, ask those people for their ideas.


 

Make Meetings work for you

This eBook gives you the secrets of organising your meetings so that they are more efficient and more effective.

Save time and money - yours and the company's.

You can be part of meetings that run well. 

  • Learn how to use those meetings to work for your own outcomes, to be a team player and to establish your image.

  • Discover the basics of parliamentary procedure that you can use to make meetings work for you, whether you are chairing the meeting or participating.

  • Learn effective presentation techniques so that you can communicate your message and your image effectively.

Click here to get the eBook


 

Effective meetings

 

Eight Steps to Better Online Meetings

When collaborating about work to be done, how would you rate online meetings in your company? ¨

  • Less than face-to-face.
  • About the same as face-to-face.
  • Better than face-to-face.

No online meeting will be as warm and comfortable as meeting face to face, such as to go out to lunch together or meet after work. But when people collaborate about the work, if your virtual meetings aren't at least as collaborative as face to face, or even better, then you could be missing a 36 percent increase in performance of people that do. (Meetings Around the World, 2006)

 

Meetings Do Not Have To Last Forever and Accomplish Nothing

 

Does it feel like you spend all your volunteer time, or time at the office in meetings? You know, the endless meetings, the ones that frustrate everyone and accomplish little. This is a common complaint among workers and volunteers, of all types and levels. Does it have to be this way? I do not believe so. Here are some guidelines for conducting a productive and as short as is practical meeting.

 

Six Tips to More Effective Meetings 

 

 

Dealing with People who are “Off-Track”

 

Remember the last time you were in a meeting and someone said something that seemed completely off-track? What happened next? If your group is like most, someone probably said something like, “Dan, that’s off-track” or “Let’s get back on track.”, or simply ignored Dan’s comment. As a result, Dan may have checked out for the rest of the meeting or continued to press his “off-track” point. The meeting may have dragged on with members getting more frustrated with Dan or you may have lost Dan’s critical input and support without realizing it. There is a way to avoid these negative outcomes – I’ll get to that later.

 

Bye-bye Boring Meetings.  Make yours Remarkable! 

Skillful facilitation can significantly improve your meetings. And, your brilliant product idea will actually have a chance! Effective facilitation will not only rev up your company’s meetings, with patience it will lead to a more collaborative way of making decisions.

 

The Seven Sins of Deadly Meetings

And seven steps to salvation. Tools, techniques, and technologies to make your meetings less painful, more productive -- even heavenly.

 

The Virtual Meeting Assistant:
Agendas
 
An effective agenda is a key component of successful meetings.



The purpose of an agenda is to:

List key topics

rd_pin.gif (1016 bytes)Announce discussion leaders and speakers

Place a time limit on each topic
 
Indicate expected outcomes/actions.

  • Vote today
  • Vote next meeting
  • Advisory comments only
Before the meeting:

rd_pin.gif (1016 bytes)Circulate the agenda several days prior to the meeting

Be prepared to modify the agenda based on feedback

From:  University of Kansas Virtual Meeting Assistant

 

Three steps to a well-run meeting

Billions of dollars are wasted each year because of poorly managed business meetings. We've all been to them; those meetings where we begin lamenting in the first five minutes that "this is going to be a long meeting", or those where as the facilitator rambles on, we wonder "why am I here?" These types of poorly run meetings are typically the result of poor preparation.

With today's high stress of lots to do and not enough time to do it in corporate environments, managers skimp on the preparation for meetings; they don't "think it through." Adequate preparation, which takes some but not much time, can keep a meeting on track and on time. The key components are setting appropriate goals for the meeting, setting a preliminary agenda with timeframes, and preparing meeting participants.

What You Can Accomplish in 6 Minutes

Your meetings will be more powerful, persuasive, and memorable if you keep your presentations to six minutes or less. The idea, says Ron Hoff in his book Say it in Six , is that by using fewer words, each one carries more weight.

Think about some of the most memorable speeches ever made. Lincoln's Gettysburg Address took less than three minutes to deliver. Lou Gehrig's famous farewell speech lasted just two minutes. On the day Nelson Mandela was released from prison in South Africa (after 27 years), his speech that marked the end of apartheid (see "Word to the Wise," below) lasted only five minutes. Winston Churchill's famous "Never Give Up" speech took six minutes, and many of his other speeches were even shorter.

- Andrew Gordon

Running Effective Meetings

While meetings are wonderful tools for generating ideas, expanding on thoughts and managing group activity, this face-to-face contact with team members and colleagues can easily fail without adequate preparation and leadership.  Article continues


Meeting success Tip - Is your meeting necessary?

Before you go ahead with your meeting, ask "Is this meeting necessary?"  Look at alternatives in terms of cost effectiveness, what need is to be filled, more effective formats, levels of accountability and the possibility of using policy or procedure checklists instead.


Conducting Power-Packed Meetings
That people will love attending!


Hugh’s 10 secrets for Group Synergy Conducting Power-Packed Meetings


1. Clearly state the purpose for the meeting.

2. Plan the meeting thoroughly
 

3. Identify the leader/moderator/facilitator of the meeting

5. Design ways to prompt input from each attendee

6. Create a group list of “norms” for process together

7. Record the group’s information where all can see

8. Review the entire agenda for the session at the beginning

9. Stay in control of the meeting

10. Do not adjourn without setting accountability standards

 

Hugh Ballou is a Speaker, Trainer and Motivator.  He outlines ways to implement these secrets in his document

Conducting Power Packed Meetings
 

Make Meetings work for you

This eBook gives you the secrets of organising your meetings so that they are more efficient and more effective.

Save time and money - yours and the company's.

You can be part of meetings that run well. 

  • Learn how to use those meetings to work for your own outcomes, to be a team player and to establish your image.

  • Discover the basics of parliamentary procedure that you can use to make meetings work for you, whether you are chairing the meeting or participating.

  • Learn effective presentation techniques so that you can communicate your message and your image effectively.

Click here to get the eBook